Apparently there was a broken link when i first published this blog. Here is the blog along with the poem.
I have been thinking a good deal this week about mothers-both real and “as-if”. I remember reading that over protective parents produce accident prone children. Presumably because more confident parents allow their children to take healthy risks. Arthur Ransome’s quote fits here “Better drowned than duffers. If not duffers won’t drown.” I also like Winnicott’s idea of the “good enough” mother. Presumably one who trusts herself and her children sufficiently to allow them to negotiate their world in their own terms.
The image above is that of a Tiger mother, the mother who ferociously pushes her child to achieve- and not simply to achieve, but to excel. (The complete opposite of a Winnicottian mother.) The reason I chose it was rather different. For me it represents the child who can face down their tigers. The child who has been given a good enough start to have a strong sense of their…
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